
A few years ago, we faced the task every dog lover dreads. My wife and I had to put our 16-year-old Yorkie-Poo to sleep. This little dog had been nick-named Nurse Peppy. Her formal name was Pepper. She became known as Nurse Peppy when she crawled into a dog bed and slept with our Jack Russell Terrier (Terrorist) as he lay dying. She comforted him as he helplessly shivered until we got him to a Vet.
Peppy, like many of our other dogs, became an integral part of our lives, offering comfort and companionship in times of need. When I had to elevate my leg after an ankle replacement, she would lay beside my cast on the recliner for hours. She remained on duty 24/7 for me, my wife, and our daughter, a constant source of solace and love.
It made me think of my first notion of unconditional love. When I was young, our family had a yellow lab named Babe. She was always glad to see us greeting us with a tail which seemed nuclear powered. We also learned how to reciprocate love with Babe. My sister best typified this by sharing her ice cream cone with Babe. My sister would take a lick, then Babe would take a lick…you get the idea.
Since we married, the many dogs we have had have been there for us, expressing their love. On a bad day, Hugo wanted to sleep in the crook of my arm. On a good day, Cindy wanted to go for a walk. Every day, Peppy wanted to sit on my lap, where she would happily sit for hours until her waning days. As she faded, none of the things she had loved mattered.
We all have our share of memorable and sometimes embarrassing stories about our beloved pets. One such story about Peppy stands out. On a road trip, Peppy got antsy. She was sitting on my lap as my wife drove. I stated we needed to find a place to stop, but suddenly, I got frantic. The dog was posturing to poop, standing on my lap. I yelled we had to stop. My wife replied, “I’m looking.” I shouted, “Stop now!” I had time to catch the only solid, doggy-made tootsie roll. What followed was at least a cup of diarrhea all over my pants and shirt. When we stopped, I set the dog in the grass, ripped off my shirt, opened the van’s hatch door, and prepared to get a fresh shirt and pants. My wife stopped me before I removed my jeans and pointed at a nearby convenience store. At least 15 senior citizens, their faces plastered against the glass, laughed hysterically and pointed at us. It was a moment of shared laughter and embarrassment that only pet owners can truly understand.
Red-faced, I slunk by that crowd, who were still howling, and used the convenience store’s bathroom to change. My wife made obligatory purchases of several of my favorite snacks and candy bars while laughing along with the crowd. Half an hour later, I joined my wife laughing about the incident. Peppy, meanwhile, had gone back to sleep on my clean lap.
The love our dogs have for us is so refreshing and simple. Almost unconditional—unless you forget too many dinners. It seems God uses our dogs to teach us how to love and develop our hearts. A dog can soften a hard heart and prepare a soft heart to mourn the loss of a loved one. Maybe a dog’s life is so much shorter than ours to teach us how to survive the loss of someone dear. Raised that “real men don’t cry,” I stunned myself when I wept uncontrollably, holding the dead body of a stray named Annie we’d adopted. God touched my heart.
Later, as two close friends struggled with the loss of a son and a daughter, it helped me to weep with them unashamedly. I could walk with these two men and feel their pain and anguish. 1 John 4:16 tells us God is love. He is the creator of love. It seems that dogs may well be one of His many teaching tools for how we are to love one another, with our hearts full as we learn to love God.

